A Little Bit About Me
I am an extremely compasionate, understanding, kind and patient individual. Not shy. Believe it or not I don’t swear and don’t find it attractive in others. Enjoy cooking, health concious when it comes to food. Love my desi food but don’t eat it spicey. A good button basher when it comes to the playstation. Clueless about sports and cars. I come from a Pakistani Mirpuri background. Qualified Textile Designer. Love to paint, am a floral artist, would like to develope it into a career one day. I like my TV shows Such as Flash, blackish, and lost in space. I enjoy almost every genre of movies. Disney fanatic, I really can’t get rid of the child within me. A bit of a perfectionist.
The fear of allah keeps me patient as I never want to be the one that is doing something wrong. I have worn the hijab since middle school. I wear my hijab in a covering manner not in a fashionable way. My salaah does need perfecting.
Life is simple and yet people some how find a way to complicate it. My difficult experience has taught me that it is truely the small things that matter and made me immensely appreciative for the smallest acts of kindness recieved from others.
What I Am Looking For
A true companion.
I’m not wanting lavish holidays which is the trend apparently. I want us to create a home as a permanent haven for us, if you can afford the holidays also then that’s a bonus.
I don’t need a guy that intensely goes to the gym and has strong muscles but a strong kind heart instead, that is compassionate, understanding and god fearing. Having fear of Allah does not mean I expect you to be praying 5 times and so on, but to just be aware that when you are about to commit a sin, big or small you know that you will be judged for it by the almighty.
I’m looking for a kind soul, if you loose your temper quickly then your deffinately not the guy for me, as I am a calm character myself.
Yes I am divorced from a marriage of 14 years. Got married at 17 to a person from pakistan and the story is typical from then on. I some how survived 14 years patiently until the patience became sufferring and had to walk away. I have 3 beautiful sophisticated children who live with me, a girl and two boys. They are aged 12, 11 and 9 so quite independant.
Please be aware, I cannot move from bradford, only locally like Bingly etc, because of my children. They have seen enough change and disruption in their lives, I can’t add to it by moving them away from their friends and what is familiar to them, it could lead them to resent the new person in our lives.
I don’t expect anything from you for the children I already have but only to be a good male role model to them as they are in dire need of it. Children learn through observation and they need to see what a caring loving home looks like.