A Little Bit About Me
Three words—spoken genuinely from the heart—have, not only an incredible impact upon both the speaker and the one being addressed, but in existence at large, and continues to reverberate existentially for as long as that energy with which it is spoken is held, increasing the power of connection and intimacy between us and all things. Those three words are: “I appreciate you”.
I’m a property owner, developer and manager, final year PhD student, lecturer and private tutor.
During the day I run and manage by property business and time outside of this is typically spent with family, friends or doing things I’m passionate about.
I believe the most essential elements of a person are their character and the true beauty of a man is in his intellect that is achieved when our minds formulate an upright and righteous way of thinking.
A few things about my personality are that I embody manly traits, am confident, down to earth, kind, caring, sociable, witty, spontaneous, love adventure and full of humour, and otherwise very spiritual and academic.
My areas of interest are in spirituality, philosophy, spiritual psychology, universal wisdom, sarcasm and bants😉
Beyond my humour and playfulness, the thing I’m searching for—and will fall in love with over and over—is meaningfulness. It’s the foundation of my relationship and connection with Allah, and the foundation for which I want to be with my future wife. I want someone who is deeply caring, but also fun and would love to go on a riding holiday with me. Not asking much 🤷🏻♂️
I do a few great accents (if you have one i’ll try and pick it up 😁), enjoy a good laugh, reading, travelling, exercising, playing sports, exploring and spending time in nature, horse riding, meditation and writing.
Asides from my work, I also lecture and tutor on Spirituality, Philosophy, Ethics, Arabic and a few other subject areas, and am currently in the final stage of my Research PhD in Theology and Critical Studies.
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What I Am Looking For
Amongst the most attractive qualities a person can have, in my opinion, is the attribute of giving. Giving in all its expressions, these include altruism, generosity, helpfulness, kindness, loyalty, love, respect, service, selflessness and sincerity, is/are all forms of expansive energy. They allow a person to be adaptable, fluid, expansive, malleable and non-rigid.
When one only takes—sometimes expressed as only giving to themselves—their energy becomes contained and consumed solely within them, making their personality more rigid, more ego-centred and consumed within themselves, restricting their ability to be available to receive. For a relationship, any relationship—be it between man and God, between couples, friends, relatives, people, etc.—to flow with true love it requires a fluid state that resembles this; removed of ego, with the willingness to both give and receive.
Appreciation, gratitude, optimism and positive mindset also go a long way with me.
Happy to share more about myself through conversation:
تَكَلَّمُوا تُعْرَفُوا، فَإِنَّ الْمَرْءَ مَخْبُوءٌ تَحْتَ لِسَانِهِ
‘Speak and you shall be known, for indeed, man is concealed beneath his tongue’
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