May Allah make this easy, Widowed, Father of 4

Arafat1209
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My Sect
Sunni
Religiousness
Religious
My Profession
Computing/IT
Marital Status
Widowed
County/State
West Yorkshire
Country
United Kingdom
Registration Reason
I'm registering to find myself a partner
A Little Bit About Me
Salaam,
Wow...
I really didn't think a day like this would ever come, but Allah knows best and tests us in our faith.

My beloved wife also a mother of 4 young kids has recently gone back to Allah.

You know what they say that you don't realise what you have until you have lost it.
May Allah forgive my shortcomings in being a better husband.
This will make me stronger inshallah and it will also enable me to become an even better husband to my future wife inshallah.

It's hard to talk about yourself here but here it goes.

Mashallah I have 4 beautiful kids 2 boys 8 & 6 also 2 girls 4 & 2, they are my everything right now however they are young and as hard as I'm trying to be their father and mother it's not the same they need a mother figure.

Alhamdulillah I've studied in Darul Uloom for 7 years to become an Alim (well no one really is an Alim as we are always learning)

I'm a down to earth person
Hard working
Love to help others in need however possible
Like to do most DIY jobs myself (don't worry I haven't messed anything up badly yet alhamdulillah)
I work in IT and am a lead consultant
I work from home
Born in Wales now live in West Yorkshire
Ethnic origin: Pakistan
Cast: Rai
I Speak English, Urdu and Punjabi.

I do not celebrate Milaad's Katams etc.

If you have the slightest bit of interest then Inshallah it's from Allah, then why not message me if you would like to know more and we can go from there Inshallah inshallah.

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What I Am Looking For
I know this is a hard ask and most will not be interested, just imagine the reward though.
If you are interested then it's from Allah and inshallah Allah is the one that will make it easier so although you may think taking on 4 kids is not an easy task you will have Allah by your side and my full support inshallah.

I'm looking for religious wife (alimah or hafiza would be a bonus) who can be a mother figure to my kids and also would like to have her own kids if she wants.

someone who values their deen over everything else.
wears hijab and abaya.
A wife that will be open to me, loving, caring, funny and that has a good sense of humour.
Someone that will keep on the right path and vice versa, In return inshallah you will get the best husband out of me someone who will be there for you no matter what, someone that will love you like no other inshallah.

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Personal Information
My Citizenship
British
Country of Origin
United Kingdom
Willing to Relocate?
None
I am Looking to Marry
As soon as possible
My Income
25,000 - 50,000
Marital Status
Widowed
Would I like to have Children?
Yes
Do I have children?
I have more than three children
My Living Arrangements?
I Live Alone
Country
United Kingdom
County/State
West Yorkshire
Distance
unknown
Appearance
My Height
1.73m (5' 8")
My Build
Medium
My Hair Colour
Black
Colour of My Eyes
Brown
Do I Smoke?
Sometimes
Do I Have Any Disabilities?
No
Education
My Education Level
Prefer not to say
Subject I Studied
Islamic Theology
Language
My First Language
English
My Second Language
Urdu
Work
My Profession
Computing/IT
My Job Title
MAS Lead Consultant
Religion
Religiousness
Religious
My Sect
Sunni
Hijab/Niqab
Yes Hijab
Beard
Yes
Are You a Revert?
No
Do You Keep Halal?
I Always Keep Halal
Do You Perform Salaah?
Always