Good manners cost nothing....

Afreen_Afreen
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My Sect
Sunni
Religiousness
Somewhat religious
My Profession
Doctor
Marital Status
Never married
County/State
Lothian
Country
United Kingdom
Registration Reason
I'm registering to find myself a partner
A Little Bit About Me
PLEASE READ PROFILE CAREFULLY BEFORE MESSAGING:

My parents have encouraged me to try this site...but I remain very sceptical...
I am aware of many stories of dishonest people (people forget it is easy to do background checks if you know how), bad manners, simply wanting to look at pictures and engage in meaningless emails, or people looking for non-halal relationships...
And this is apparently a site for Muslims!...
So I am sceptical about whether honesty and integrity does exist on such a site?.....I will be very impressed if you do prove me wrong!

I am well educated, articulate, caring, respectful and have a genuine appreciation of my Islamic/Eastern heritage whilst also appreciating the Western society that I have been brought up in.
I work hard as a Hospital Consultant. I also mentor young disadvantaged ethnic minorities so they can try and achieve their potential. Whilst some would say I am successful in my career, I consider myself fortunate that my hard work has given me a fulfilling job.
I try to keep fit!, enjoy reading and travelling, as well as having an interest in current affairs & watching many varied sports. I would say I know more about football than many men!..
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Some men have previously asked me "why are you not married yet?". That is sometimes their first question without even saying Salaam. People should realise that Allah (swt) has defined a path for all of us and we cannot change this, and in addition we should NEVER judge people.
Insha'Allah, the next chapter in my life will be a happy one. After all, true happiness comes to those who wait....

(To avoid the expected inappropriate messages (I told you I am cynical & sceptical about this approach!), my father and older brother have access to my account - so please note my "headline" - "Good manners cost nothing"...).
I really do not have the time or inclination for games or silly messages (we are not silly teenagers after all!), and if you can only type "Hi / Salaam", then it is unlikely we will have much in common to have a conversation.

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What I Am Looking For
An honest and genuine gentleman who has many similar attributes to myself - so that we can work equally together to try and build a successful marriage.
Someone who has also worked hard, is educated and has been successful in their own career.
Someone with patience, integrity, humility and an ability to compromise. That is what my parents say it takes to have a happy marriage....
Please also note I am tall and therefore a gentleman should be taller than me.

I am very capable of making my own decisions, with the blessings of my family of course. Therefore, I am open to parental involvement
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I look forward to seeing if there is an articulate, honest, educated and independent gentleman out there who can confound my scepticism / cynicism!.....

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Personal Information
My Citizenship
British
Country of Origin
Pakistan
Willing to Relocate?
Nationally
I am Looking to Marry
This year
My Income
Prefer not to say
Marital Status
Never married
Would I like to have Children?
Unsure
Do I have children?
No
My Living Arrangements?
I Live Alone
Country
United Kingdom
County/State
Lothian
Distance
unknown
Appearance
My Height
1.73m (5' 8")
My Build
Slim
My Hair Colour
Black
Colour of My Eyes
Brown
Do I Smoke?
No
Do I Have Any Disabilities?
No
Education
My Education Level
Doctorate
Subject I Studied
Medicine
Language
My First Language
English
My Second Language
Urdu
Work
My Profession
Doctor
My Job Title
Hospital Consultant
Religion
Religiousness
Somewhat religious
My Sect
Sunni
Hijab/Niqab
No
Beard
Prefer not to say
Are You a Revert?
No
Do You Keep Halal?
I Always Keep Halal
Do You Perform Salaah?
Sometimes