A Little Bit About Me
I am a happy, optimistic and young looking man of 47 years with a GSOH employed in telecommunications. Sensible yet fun loving was born and living in Glasga' (Glasgow)/Scotland like many I am of Pakistani ethnicity.. Aye, I know!!:) Have great love for Pakistan, it's culture as well as Scotland. Unlike most Muslim's I don't suffer from any complex or an identity crises. A clean living man minus any bad habits optimism is in my nature hence I am a happy man whose glass is always half full never half empty. I hardly ever suffer form any bad moods though can be a bit reserved even shy at times. I do exactly as it say's on the tin I mean I've no secrets or things like that:)
Interested ladies please note that I suffer from a physical deficiency, don't feel sorry for me as Allah never burdens a soul more then it can endure. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger. I see myself as "special" not disabled, Allah only tests those he loves more. Alhumdolillah, I am fully capable of completing daily tasks easily and enjoying life so don't let this put you off. Can any pious Muslimah accept me?? To those wondering why I am still single I say it's better to be happily single then unhappily married. Marriage is about finding the right partner.
I love Reading internet articles, Sport with European Football being a favourite as well as Cricket and Snooker. Other interests are business opportunities, fitness, walking on beach, visiting the park and seaside as it's therapeutic, playing with kids, shopping and self development. Yes, I listen to Music and watches Movies as well. Unlike many men I am also a decent chef who is always willing to help in the kitchen as well as assist in other home chores, by all means I consider myself as a modern Muslim man. I am sociable, charming, affectionate, non-violent and a very likeable man who believes in maintaining high moral/human values and righteousness more then empty prayers. I am not belittling the importance of Salat when I say this. However, it pains me to see how Muslim's have made Islam in to a costume drama instead of the spiritual path it is supposed to be. My sufi heart is at peace with the world and my own existence, can be very sensitive and a deep thinker at times. Spiritually I am very strong in the sense that I can handle pain and disappointment very well that is what a man's strength to me should be, not the size of his muscles! Slender build weighing 140 pounds, no double chin or access weight at all. I am told I have a very nice voice...like singing songs....not a bad looking guy either:)...also like having different haircut's, taking pride in my appearance and looking good like we all should. As for my weaknesses we all have some.....that's what makes us human. Mines are the usual ones like I can be very impatient, lazy and a poor time keeper etc so need a lady to set me straight:). We accept each other for what we are including our weaknesses. Being the youngest of three kid's I come from a relatively small immediate family with both parents have long passed on (Allah kareem, Kullo nafsin dzaiqatul maut, Inna Lillahi wa inna ilaihi raji'un ). Insha Allah, phone chats will lead to a meeting in a public place like a coffee shop so that either is free to leave if they so desire. Prevention is better then cure, right?? Only want a simple wedding, nothing extravagant. I have everything to be a great hubby, hope someone will give me a chance to prove it. I have a lot of love and affection to give, all you need to do is be willing to receive it. I love writing as all viewers of this profile can see so hope I've clean bowled you:) A very down-to-earth man who is comfortable in both Western and Pakistani attire however I do not at all dress in long robes neither will I ever have a long beard rather denims and western suits even the Pakistani tunic/long shirt are more to my liking. It does not take much to please me or make me happy....an uncomplicated, simple and incredibly down to earth individual minus any hangs up's or excess baggage so to speak. Want to learn and grow with someone, to teach and be taught as well on spiritual matters in particular. No harm in learning from a lady at all.
Walk on with hope in your heart....
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What I Am Looking For
I am seeking a slim and pretty Muslimah to complete my deen . She should be a happy and a polite person free from unislamic habits. Must be able to fluently engage in the English language, her financial and educational background are irrelevant however no ladies with kid's/mother's, sorry!. She will not be asked to provide any traditional dowry as I am not at all a materialistic or greedy man whatsoever. Moreover, a relationship based on financial gain and greed is bound to collapse. Can make my own money in life, thanks. Peace, unconditional love where we are together in sickness and health...poverty and wealth together with trust mean much more to me then anything else moreover age can often only be a number so is irrelevant as ladies mostly mature faster then men. Feminine and pretty whilst remembering that "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder" I just want someone to love and be loved by leading to a happy home. Arrogance is one trait I despise in particular hence please don't be that. I don't mind a colourful hijab however no burkha or niqab wearers as I am incredibly uncomfortable with them finding it ever so depressive and oppressive to look at. Don't see the point in covering up beauty, within reason. I am not keen on long black jilbab's and abaya's either, I love my Pakistani and Scottish heritage. Don't be so liberal that you can't show your face to Allah on "akhirah" yet don't be so extreme or overtly religious that tolerating a different point of view becomes burdensome. Equally, she should not indulge in exposing herself. We must find each other physically attractive that is an important part of forming a successful relationship. There will be no middle person on my behalf, interested ladies will be dealing with me directly. Even though I have said a lot you can see that my requirements are very simple, basic and straight forward. I am not seeking an Angelina Jolie though it would be awesome if you did resemble her:)
Despite answering "yes" due to there being no third option I am not really sure if or not I want kid's at this point. It's up to the lady, her body after all. Faith is not faith unless put to the test. I need a lady with a strong character who won't be intimidated by life's challenges or run to her parents at the first sign of difficulty,. I am well past that period in life where just a pretty face will impress and satisfy me, the world is full of them!!. There has to be compassion, personality and character behind those good looks.
Live and let live.
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