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Umm_Musa

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Looking for a righteous husband

Umm_Musa
My Sect
Sunni
Religiousness
Very religious
My Profession
Education
Marital Status
Divorced
County/State
New Jersey, Rahway
Country
United States
Registration Reason
I'm registering to find myself a partner

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A Little Bit About Me
A alaykum alaykum….My kunya is Umm Musa born and raise in Newark Nj…..I’m the proud ummi of 5 beautiful children and the youngest of 7 siblings….. Alhumdiallah Allah guided me to this religion in 1998 and invited me to his house several times along with some of my siblings….I try to follow the way of our Salaf us Salih with implementation in statements and actions to the best of my ability…..A little about myself I’m currently enrolled is school to receive my BA in Islamic studies….Im extremely picky when seeking a spouse because this person has my Jannah or jahannum
in is hand….I’m extremely shy in person…I’m kind. affectionate……sensitive……spontaneous…..loyal….
I’m not here to chit chat or play games …..I have a wali so those who are seriously trying to fear Allah go through the proper steps when seeking a spouse…..May Allah bless us with a righteous spouse ….BarAkallahu feekum

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What I Am Looking For
An ideal husband possesses good attributes and has enough courage, dignity, courteousness, patience, kindness, strength of character and knowledge which entitle him to rise above any hatred of his wife in his dealings with her.

An ideal husband is obedient and sincere to his Rabb; so, he always treats his wife well even if he dislikes her or some of her actions, because he understands the wisdom of the words of his Rabb. He understands that he may dislike something which is full of goodness and blessing. The believing man does not believe in blind love and extremes of hatred, in either case his attitude is moderate and balanced.

This is beautifully explained by the Prophet (SAW) in a narration recorded by Muslim,

” A believing man should not hate a believing woman; if he dislikes one of her characteristics, he will be pleased with another.” [Sahih Muslim 1468 b] An ideal husband strives to adhere to the Islamic commands to treat his wife well. Islam encourages men to respect and treat women well and elevate their status which had been downgraded in other religion. The Prophet (SAW) cautions all men saying:

“Treat women kindly, for woman was created from a rib. The part of it that is most bent is the top. If you try to straighten it you will break it (and her breaking is her divorce), and if you leave it alone it will remain bent. So, treat women kindly.” [Sahih al-Bukhari 3331, Sahih Muslim 1468]

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Personal Information
My Citizenship
American
Country of Origin
United States
Willing to Relocate?
Internationally
I am Looking to Marry
As soon as possible
My Income
Prefer not to say
Marital Status
Divorced
Would I like to have Children?
No
Do I have children?
Yes
My Living Arrangements?
I Live With Family
Country
United States
County/State
New Jersey, Rahway
Distance
unknown
Appearance
My Height
1.52m (5' 0")
My Build
Medium
My Hair Colour
Black
Colour of My Eyes
Brown
Do I Smoke?
No
Do I Have Any Disabilities?
No
Education
My Education Level
Prefer not to say
Subject I Studied
Islamic Studies
Language
My First Language
English
My Second Language
English
Work
My Profession
Education
My Job Title
Entrepreneur
Religion
Religiousness
Very religious
My Sect
Sunni
Hijab/Niqab
Yes Niqab
Beard
Yes
Are You a Revert?
Yes
Do You Keep Halal?
I Always Keep Halal
Do You Perform Salaah?
Always