A Little Bit About Me
I never envisioned sugning up to Apps for the purpose of marriage, it being due to no one willing to recommend anyone that I have taken it upon myself to find someone, I am keen to find someone whom is caring, considerate, and kind, I see myself being calm, considerate, and respectful especially towards females, as I have gone through a separation dealing with it has not been easy for therefore if I happen to match with anyone a humble request, be patient with me, I will once communication is underway inform you as to the reasons why I believe my marriage happened to breakdown - I can understand if some of you may have doubts about communicating with me or be unsure about communicating with me to establish why I have gone through a separation which I can completely understand, this is something I am willing to elaborate on in more detail once communication has been established
I place no blame on myself for the separation and feel that constant interference caused a strain in my previous relationship - it was becoming too personal, therefore I spoke up against it in an effort to defend my position
I am aiming to move on from my negative experince and hope to find someone whom I will be more compatible with Insha’Allah
Football (Arsenal Supporter)
I have a keen interest in travelling, this is something I wish to continue to explore further in the near with my potential spouse, visited the following countries so far!
What I Am Looking For
I am not really sure what to write here, I guess I would say I am looking for someone who I could see myself getting along with and who potentially believes she could too get along with me
I would like to potentially meet someone who is caring, loving, romantic, as I see marriage more than two people coming together - we need to be compatible, have a positive mindset entering into the bond of marriage, have the ability and understanding to communicate effectively with each other especially if misunderstandings were to arise in the relationship, I believe if the two of you get upset with one another over small disagreements in the relationship then that will strain the relationship, therefore there has to be the ability to understand one another as it is so, so important! I am one who dislikes argumentation/confrontation in a marriage/relationship as I believe it is one of the most common factors in a breakdown/separation, it can become even more of a problem if parents/family of the two of you get involved and interfere, if disagreements occur I personally believe that it is for the two whom are married to clear up and misunderstandings in the marriage without parents interferring, as if it the son his parents will defend him and if it is the daughter her parents will defend her, instead is it not better for both parents to be mature and wise enough to realise that they need to establish reconcilation between the two whom are married, not instigate them against each other in the form of taking sides, as this has happened with me previously, I will know the way a disagreement should be handled should it happen to arise, like I stated as husband and wife you both need to effectively communicate with one another without letting others interfere in your personal matters!
Marry the one who has religion so that you may be truly successful
I am open considering reverts if I can find someone who has reverted as it is a personal preference
I pray and make Du’a that is it easy for everyone of us to find a suitable match as I realise it is much more of a struggle for our generation than the elders within our families with many of them actually not understanding why many of us are still unmarried which is not a good sign given the society we are having to live in marriage is something which should have been made extremely easy why it has been made complicated only the almighty knows, the years are passing as we age the longer we remain unmarried naturally the more we will worry and stress here’s hoping we can all find someone fairly soon have to keep on searching and remain positive in our attempts believing there will come a time when we will eventually break through and be successful in our search Insha’Allah
Wishing everyone the best of luck in their search!