A Little Bit About Me
I am an art lover. I like to create things and express myself through everything I make. I like to read. I like philosophy and psychology, figuring out things until I am happy with a conclusion. I like to listen to other people's thoughts and opinions and take it to a meaningful conversation. I am very patient and non judgemental. I don't hang out with people who talk disrespectfully or with people who don't care that Allah is listening.
My buzz highs come from nature, beautiful surroundings, and birds, oh and kids. Being in pure surroundings makes me give praise to My Lord and makes me excited about the hereafter. My relationship with Allah is a very personal one.
Simple things make me very happy, I have no hunger for a material life, don't want to marry for your money or gifts. Certainly not to help me with my kids.
I try to help whenever I can and making someone smile is a nice thing to do... Quite simple actually too. I like to be a shoulder to lean on for people. I have a lovely family back home.
I do not have a British citizenship because my Irish citizenship allows me to remain here and I am settled here since 2004.
Life Is Like A Box of Chocolates, You Can Never Tell Which One You Are Gonna Get
What I Am Looking For
Someone who doesn't get angry, easy to talk to, great sense of humour, not a bossy boots, respects others, non judgemental, patient and calm especially in challenging situations, likes the pure things in life like nature etc. likes literature, maybe writing and art would be great. I love people who are ok with talking about life, sensible and knowledgeable things and religion. Though I do highly respect everyone's journey is a personal one and at a level that each one is free to choose, I have only desire to be with someone who knows that 5 salat is an ORDER from Allah and not something to be taken lightly. In saying that I've met many in my life who pray a lot and still have such sad hypocrisy and arrogance about them.... Don't fear me 🤗
Someone who is praying 5 salat and is God conscious, not forces their opinion anyone or puts themselves on a pedestal. A man who is mature and has had a good taste of life, who knows how to treat women and care about them. I do not seek your gifts, money or material things. I am financially stable and have my own home.
I don't want someone who can't laugh at things, I like smiles. It's a very huge massive must that I be with people who laugh plenty and have an excellent sense of humour.
I'm not in a situation where I can marry and live together straight away, so I am looking for someone who is OK with this and can take things slowly.... Take note : I am not looking for a joke, I am serious and yes I am very aware of my religion, and I am a loyal and very faithful person. I have 2 kids and their feelings and thoughts are extremely important to me. Being single and having no romance is a challenge that I still battle with. My personality is not suited to being alone and suppressing my affection or my sense of humour.
May Allah bless you all and keep you safe